An Interesting Story...
Subject:
Keep the Fork.
There was a young woman who had been diagnosed
with a terminal illness and had been given three
months to live. So as she was getting her things
"in order," she contacted her pastor and had him
come to her house to discuss certain aspects of
her final wishes.

She told him which songs she wanted sung at the
service, what scriptures she would like read, and
what oufit she wanted to be buried in. Everything
was in order and the pastor was preparing to leave
when the young woman suddenly remembered
something very important to her.
"There's one more thing," she said excitedly.
"What's that?" came the pastor's reply.
"This is very important," the young woman con
tinued. "I want to be buried with a fork in my
right hand."

The pastor stood looking at the young woman,
not knowing quite what to say.
"That surprises you, doesn't it?" the young woman
asked.
"Well, to be honest, I"m puzzled by the request,"
said the pastor.
The young woman explained. "My grandmother
once told me this story. I have tried to pass
along its message to those I love and those who
are in need of encouragement. In all my years
of attending church socials and potluck dinners,
I always remember that when the dishes of the
main course were being cleared someone would
inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork'."

"It was my favorite part because I knew that
something better was coming...like velvety
chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie.
Something wonderful, and with substance!
So, I just want people to see me there in
that casket with a fork in my hand and I want
them to wonder, "What's with the fork?"
Then I want you to tell them: "Keep your fork
. . . the best is yet to come."


The pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy
as he hugged the young woman good-bye.
He knew this would be one of the last times
he would see her before her death. But he also
knew that the young women had a better grasp
of heaven than he did. She had a better grasp
of what heaven would be like than many people
twice her age, with twice as much experience
and knowledge.She KNEW that something
better was coming.
At the funeral people were walking by the young
woman's casket and they saw the pretty dress
she was wearing and the fork place in her right
hand. Over and over, the pastor heard the ques-
tion, "What's with the fork?" And over and over
he smiled.
During his message, the pastor told the people
of the conversation he had with the young woman
shortly before she died. He also told them about
the fork and about what it symbolized to her. The
pastor told the people how he could not stop
thinking about the fork and told them that they
probably would not be able to stop thinking about
it either. He was right.
So the next time you reach down for your fork,
let it remind you ever so gently, that the best is
yet to come.


Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make
you smile and encourage you to succeed. They
lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they
always want to open their hearts to us. Show
your friends how much you care. Remember to
always be there for them, even when you need
them more. For you never know when it may be
their time to "Keep the fork". "Cherish the time
you have, and the memories you share ... being
friends with someone is not an opportunity but
a sweet responsibility."
Kindly contributed by Amy

